How to Talk to Girls and Get Them To Like You

The way to get girls to like you is to ask them out. It’s as simple as that. If you’re reading this, you’re probably one of the many men out there who have been unsuccessful in dating women. You know somebody who knows somebody, right? They all say the same thing: Girls never want to go out with guys; they want to go out with guys who are going to treat them like shit and pay for their drinks. So why on earth do so many of us persist in trying to impress our female friends with romantic gestures like asking them out on a date or texting them every chance we get? The truth is, we’re afraid of getting hurt. We don’t want to appear desperate or ungrateful. In fact, if we let our socialite friends know how lame conventional dating methods are, they’ll laugh at us and run away before giving it another look. So we protect ourselves by keeping things casual and awkward and low-key until something clicks with a potential partner. But what if there was a better way? What if we could ditch the pity dates and stay the chill night after night without fear of rejection? What if we didn’t have to worry about being excluded because some internet troll photoshopped pictures of us dancing alone at fancy parties in our underwear?

Ask her out

This is the most straightforward and crucial step in the whole process. The one thing you can do to make a girl feel welcome, helpful, and appreciated. You don’t need to guess where she’s been, where she’d like to go, or what she’d like to drink. Just ask. If you’ve been flirting with her for a while, you already know how to start a conversation. She’s probably thought about you and what you’d like to talk about. Now it’s just a matter of asking her out on a date. If she accepts, congratulations! You won’t be the only one with self-doubts who’s ever cleared them with an attractive stranger. Now, onto the date itself. A great first date tip is to order her favourite drink and pay for it. This not only shows her that you know what you like, but it also lets her know that you have money to spend. A simple and classy way to go on a first date? You got it.

Go on a first date

On your first date, you’re going to ask her out on a coffee date, a dinner date, or a night out on the town. Whether she takes you to dinner or drinks you to the strip club, this is the night to let your guard down and show her that you know how to have a good time. When you take the lead and start driving her to spots you both enjoy, you let go of a lot of the pressure you may have been feeling. You relax a bit and enjoy the person you’re seeing instead of worrying about what to say or what to do. On your first date, you get to practice how to talk to girls and not feel as though you have to impress them. If you want to be picky, you can always order a coffee or tea for your date instead of drinking alcohol. Ask her if she wants to join you at your favourite place or go to a restaurant you love. If she isn’t comfortable going out with you, don’t pressure her. Just say you understand, and you won’t be too upset if she doesn’t take the plunge.

Second date – again

After getting her number and asking her out on a third date, but the first date into context. On your third date, you can start to open up a bit more. You can ask her about her life, her interests, her plans for the future, and why she’s interested in what you do for a living. You can also ask her out on another coffee date, dinner date, or night out on the town. It’s normal to follow up on your second date with a call or text to check if she had any questions. Once you’ve established a connection, it’s time to put the brakes on casual dating and become more serious. You can do this by showing her that you care by giving her flowers, giving her an expensive gift, or giving her a message. A great way to let her know you care without saying too much is to send a text message after dinner or a night out on the town. Send something simple, like “I love you.” This will let her know that you care without using words that are too mushy.

Make it invisible to her friends.

During your first few dates, it’s important to practice saying “no” so that you don’t sound like a pushover when you’re actually attracted to a girl and want to get to know her better. During your second date, it’s a good idea to share what you like to drink with her friends. This lets her know that you don’t only desire to hang out with her but also her friends. If she knows several other guys who want to get to know her better, it gives her an added confidence boost to be able to say “no” to other guys while still showing that you’re a part of her friends.

Put no pressure on her to hook up with you.

When you start to put pressure on a girl to sleep with you, you’ve already lost the fight. All you’ve done is open the door for her to say no so that she doesn’t have to. If you want to go on a few more dates, try to take it slow, show her that you’re not looking for anything serious, and ask her out on another coffee or dinner date. If she still doesn’t feel comfortable saying yes, don’t pressure her to do anything she’s not ready for. Just be patient, be kind, and show her that you respect her boundaries.

Surprise with a gift

A great way to let her know that you care is to surprise her with a gift. You can get her something as simple as a card, a bottle of fragrance, or a beautiful scarf. Let her know that you think about her and that you care by writing or putting some emotion into the gift. This shows her that you care without saying too much and might even make her cry.

Could you give her a kiss?

If you want to show her that you care, but you’re not sure if she wants to be kissed, give her a kiss on the cheek. It’s a subtle way of saying “I love you” without saying it too loudly. It’s also a great way to let her know that you’re not afraid to get physical with her. If she doesn’t want to be kissed on the cheek, don’t force yourself on her. Just let her know that she can always tell you what she wants and needs without feeling awkward or embarrassed.

There are many ways for men to show women they care about them without saying it with words. If you keep these tips in mind when dating someone new, then it will be easy for both of you to avoid awkwardness and communicate your feelings in an appropriate manner.

Bottom line

Doing these little things for your girl will go a long way in making her feel welcome and special. If you don’t, you’re probably not going to get much out of this relationship, regardless of how much you try. There’s no telling how long you two will be together, so take the time to show her that you care and that you want a relationship with her. If you can’t give her that, then nothing will ever come of those three little words, “I love you.”

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